Is this a crazy story, and can I file for domestic abuse?

by Knight Foundation

My wife seldom hit me, but her abuse was nonstop and vicious. She has used her tongue and mind to harm my life in ways an rival wouldnt even stoop to doing. I have repeatedly demonstrated that I loved this woman more than any man could like, and she used my kind heart, keenness and like to hurt me beyond belief.
To make it clear, I wanted a family so terribly, that i married a woman 3000 miles away I met online. I didnt know she was so terrible, addicted to Rx drugs, or so very pretty.
1. She called police and said I abused her, after I found out she went to Canada with a rockstar, and a note to another man saying she loved him. Luckily I had entire encounter on tape, and cops didnt arrest me as she questioned
2. She filed fake divorce documents saying I contributed $ 3,000, when it was $ 178,000…She stopped divorce, and we got back together
3. Upon catching her writing other men, she ruined my computer files containing #1s adultry, so I told her to go home to FL. Weeks later I found out she said I beat her to a doctor and family, making it impossible for me to go in with her.
4. She told me she waned to be a model and singer, then told me she had to write each man on myspace, and place up pix in skimpy fashion. As a Christian, this has hurt my soul. For sake of marriage and like, I said ok to keep her pleased, even though it seemed sinful to me.
5. She signed my name for a loan to get plastic surgery, taking this 110lb woman with DD boobs, to a FF.
6. I found this out the day of surgery, as I Iearned she was in Mexico getting procedure done. I flew down to help her get thru surgery, then questioned her about loan a few days later upon recovery. We had a fight over that and other guys she was writing, Next day in CA, she ruined my computer again(contained more of her adultry), then yelled boody murder. Cops came, she was bleeding from surgery. she told them to arrest me on violence. They did, then let me go a few day later without saying a word, produce they didnt believe her.
7. A week later, I got another computer and checked her myspace. She turned it into a sexual dating site, filled with like notes and sexual comments. I got a dui at 8 am next morning.
8. I tell her Im going to file forgery charges, she starts being nice, and we make up. I told her I wouldnt check myspace anymore, produce we just fight too much about the things she writes men. We had 3 excellent months, in anticipation of she started being strangely mean. I go onto myspace, and see that she was writing blogs about me beating her. My coworkers were on her friends list and could read these lies. She was telltale a country music star she adored him and how hot he was in many letters and comments.
9. Though this is not in sequence, thruout marriage she wrote me about 8000 of the most dreadful text imaginable. I still have not read 1,154 of them that are stored on my computer. they were so mean and insane, that I couldnt sleep, was hurting my job routine, and sometimes made me drink. I am a improving alcoholic and was sober for 10 1/2 being in anticipation of the night of #1.
10. We seem to make up, I continue sending her about 3/4(800) of my paycheck a week to pay for her house and living. In order to do that, I never bought clothes, made sack lunches and never ate out, stopped playing golf and never had fun. The only thing I bought was clothes for her modeling shoots each week, cameras and gear for photography. I had so many money making inventions and thoughts, but only contributed to her modeling dream. The only thing I ever questioned my distant wife for, was a 5 minute goodmorning and goodnight call, which she hardly ever did, instead I got about 40 crazy mean text while I was at work.
11. When her text became so absurdedly mean, I quickly took off work and flew to Florida. It took me 3 days to get there tho, produce I had distress finding a flight I could afford. She learned about it, because she broke into my email(as usual), and saw itenarary. She had time to clean up. Strangely tho, on my 3rd day there, laying beside her bed, I found 4 pix with her and the man from #1 kissing. She was wearing a shirt I bought her, and my ring on incorrect finger, so we were married. I was so hurt, because she always said she was faithful, just wrote stupid stuff from nievity. I took pix of pix, showing the date, which was 2 days before I left florida. I didnt tell my wife I found pix in anticipation of I was at airport lobby. We had a fantastic time together, and she wanted me to stay longer. When i told her about pix, she didnt flinch, make a face, show expression at all. I told her i forgave her, and loved her, all with a kiss and a smile. I told her I wanted to go home though. Half way home, I received a text. thinking it was an apology i was pleased. No, she said i was a misrepresent because I looked thru her kids underwear drawer. they were at dads, and I searched house after i found pix.
12. She was still sending me terrible text, and I was crying. couldnt believe this from a woman who cheated, and I
I am posting a part 2, as it left out worst yet..it was too long to fit
seekn2know, thank you. This may signal weird, but your answer made me smile and weep. I thought I was honoring my vow to God, but strangely enough it has hurt my soul. My late dad was divorced 5 times, and my own personal vow was to do it once. Thanks for the wisdom and setting me straight.

Answer by Wendy M
She is a nightmare. You need to file criminal charges for the forgery and also for a divorce.

She is messing with your head to take in her own guilt.

Answer by Heather W
Yes, this is crazy.

I would forget filing for domestic abuse though. I would file for divorce YESTERDAY.

Answer by sarah30
Try filing for abuse and talk to an attorney. But if you want my advice, keep yourself away from her as far as you can.

Answer by Garnet Glitter
You picked her…and you need now to get rid of her…you hung on to this one far longer than you should have…people don’t change so if you’re thinking that you are out of luck…
..document all the adulteries for a charge of adultery and divorce her……being a willing victim grows ancient quick, for yourself and those around you.

Answer by Orestes
Oh…The freakin drama

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>> Detroit International Jazz Festival receives 0,000 from Knight Foundation to support DJF’s Jazz Planet
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>> Detroit, November 10, 2010 – The John S. and James L. Knight Foundation has awarded the Detroit International Jazz Festival (DJF) a 0,000 grant to help the festival reach a global audience through an exciting web-based initiative, DJF’s Jazz Planet.

>> DJF’s Jazz Planet – a streaming news magazine and music channel, featuring performances, news flashes, interviews and behind-the-scenes commentary from the 2010 Detroit International Jazz Festival – was made to showcase Detroit as a significant center for jazz, provide a platform for artists to share their projects, and renovate a mainstream audience for jazz and the festival through the internet.
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My wife seldom hit me, but her abuse was nonstop and vicious. She has used her tongue and mind to harm my life in ways an rival wouldnt even stoop to doing. I have repeatedly demonstrated that I loved this woman more than any man could like, and she used my kind heart, keenness and like to hurt me beyond belief.
To make it clear, I wanted a family so terribly, that i married a woman 3000 miles away I met online. I didnt know she was so terrible, addicted to Rx drugs, or so very pretty.
1. She called police and said I abused her, after I found out she went to Canada with a rockstar, and a note to another man saying she loved him. Luckily I had entire encounter on tape, and cops didnt arrest me as she questioned
2. She filed fake divorce documents saying I contributed $ 3,000, when it was $ 178,000…She stopped divorce, and we got back together
3. Upon catching her writing other men, she ruined my computer files containing #1s adultry, so I told her to go home to FL. Weeks later I found out she said I beat her to a doctor and family, making it impossible for me to go in with her.
4. She told me she waned to be a model and singer, then told me she had to write each man on myspace, and place up pix in skimpy fashion. As a Christian, this has hurt my soul. For sake of marriage and like, I said ok to keep her pleased, even though it seemed sinful to me.
5. She signed my name for a loan to get plastic surgery, taking this 110lb woman with DD boobs, to a FF.
6. I found this out the day of surgery, as I Iearned she was in Mexico getting procedure done. I flew down to help her get thru surgery, then questioned her about loan a few days later upon recovery. We had a fight over that and other guys she was writing, Next day in CA, she ruined my computer again(contained more of her adultry), then yelled boody murder. Cops came, she was bleeding from surgery. she told them to arrest me on violence. They did, then let me go a few day later without saying a word, produce they didnt believe her.
7. A week later, I got another computer and checked her myspace. She turned it into a sexual dating site, filled with like notes and sexual comments. I got a dui at 8 am next morning.
8. I tell her Im going to file forgery charges, she starts being nice, and we make up. I told her I wouldnt check myspace anymore, produce we just fight too much about the things she writes men. We had 3 excellent months, in anticipation of she started being strangely mean. I go onto myspace, and see that she was writing blogs about me beating her. My coworkers were on her friends list and could read these lies. She was telltale a country music star she adored him and how hot he was in many letters and comments.
9. Though this is not in sequence, thruout marriage she wrote me about 8000 of the most dreadful text imaginable. I still have not read 1,154 of them that are stored on my computer. they were so mean and insane, that I couldnt sleep, was hurting my job routine, and sometimes made me drink. I am a improving alcoholic and was sober for 10 1/2 being in anticipation of the night of #1.
10. We seem to make up, I continue sending her about 3/4(800) of my paycheck a week to pay for her house and living. In order to do that, I never bought clothes, made sack lunches and never ate out, stopped playing golf and never had fun. The only thing I bought was clothes for her modeling shoots each week, cameras and gear for photography. I had so many money making inventions and thoughts, but only contributed to her modeling dream. The only thing I ever questioned my distant wife for, was a 5 minute goodmorning and goodnight call, which she hardly ever did, instead I got about 40 crazy mean text while I was at work.
11. When her text became so absurdedly mean, I quickly took off work and flew to Florida. It took me 3 days to get there tho, produce I had distress finding a flight I could afford. She learned about it, because she broke into my email(as usual), and saw itenarary. She had time to clean up. Strangely tho, on my 3rd day there, laying beside her bed, I found 4 pix with her and the man from #1 kissing. She was wearing a shirt I bought her, and my ring on incorrect finger, so we were married. I was so hurt, because she always said she was faithful, just wrote stupid stuff from nievity. I took pix of pix, showing the date, which was 2 days before I left florida. I didnt tell my wife I found pix in anticipation of I was at airport lobby. We had a fantastic time together, and she wanted me to stay longer. When i told her about pix, she didnt flinch, make a face, show expression at all. I told her i forgave her, and loved her, all with a kiss and a smile. I told her I wanted to go home though. Half way home, I received a text. thinking it was an apology i was pleased. No, she said i was a misrepresent because I looked thru her kids underwear drawer. they were at dads, and I searched house after i found pix.
12. She was still sending me terrible text, and I was crying. couldnt believe this from a woman who cheated, and I
Shoot it left out the worst parts because of length
I posted a part 2 since it was too long to fit. Delight read, produce it gets even worse…I need help. yes all kinds

Answer by IndianaJohn
quit being a freaking door mat

grad your balls and your courage and walk like a damn man

Answer by bemmer71
People often reckon that men are the aggressors in abuse situations and women can sometimes be just be as ruthless. Your wife is smart in that unlike physical abuse which leaves bruises or other marks, emotional abuse doesn’t reveal itself and she obviously knows this so she uses this method to torment you.

I’d get a divorced and get away from her before something terrible happens ! Next time you meet someone online, do a back ground check !

Stop sending her money to help pay her bills ! There’s so many women who would be glad to have a guy like you !

Answer by Bob M
omg i am so terribly sorry. this must be hard. divorce her. she obviously has problems and has shown that she doesnt care about your feelings and apologizing means nothing. possibly she is psychologicly crazy or something. excellent luck. bye

Answer by Fstmdj2
Man, thats terrible. You must be so strong to place up with all of that. Don’t continue putting up with this. I know you like her deeply, but the feeling can’t be mutual. What they are doing is sinful on a massive extent. You only get one lifetime pal. Make the most of it

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